Scriptures that honor the gift of family. These verses celebrate parents, children, and the bonds that unite households in faith.
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Core Verse 1
And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the LORD, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
A grounding passage to help you understand how Scripture speaks about family.
Core Verse 2
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
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Core Verse 3
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.
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Core Verse 4
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
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Core Verse 5
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.
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Core Verse 6
Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
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ExploreAnd if it is evil in your eyes to serve the LORD, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.
Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
A Song of Ascents. Blessed is everyone who fears the LORD, who walks in his ways! You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands; you shall be blessed, and it shall be well with you. Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table. Behold, thus shall the man be blessed who fears the LORD.
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
A Song of Ascents. Of David. Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
For I have chosen him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.”
This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.
Honor your father and mother, and, You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers.
But the steadfast love of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him, and his righteousness to children’s children, to those who keep his covenant and remember to do his commandments.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.
Editorial Notes
Family in scripture is not idealized. The Bible's family stories are full of conflict, betrayal, favoritism, and dysfunction — Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his brothers, David and his sons. The verses in this collection are not about perfect families; they're about what families are called to be and what God does within them.
Joshua 24:15 — "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord" — is one of the most quoted family verses in Christianity. It's a declaration of household identity, made by a leader at the end of his life. The "as for me" is important: Joshua is not commanding his family; he's declaring his own commitment and inviting them into it. That's a different posture.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 is the most practical passage in this collection: "These words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise." The instruction is not to have formal Bible study — it's to weave scripture into the ordinary moments of daily life. Sitting, walking, lying down, rising. The whole rhythm of the day.
Psalm 127:3-5 describes children as "a heritage from the Lord" and "a reward." In a culture that often treats children as burdens or projects, this is a countercultural claim. Children are gifts, not achievements. The framing matters for how parents relate to their children.
Proverbs 22:6 — "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it" — is a proverb, not a guarantee. Proverbs describe patterns, not promises. But the pattern it describes is real: early formation shapes long-term orientation. The investment of early years matters.